Things I Am Too Old To Care About! Don’t Wait Too Long To Change

As I’ve gotten older, I’ve noticed there are many things that I am unwilling to care about. For instance; I’m unwilling to care about what anybody thinks about me. I don’t need you to like me. I don’t care if you like me I don’t worry about how I look, or how I present to the world. It’s actually  a good place to be after so many exhausting years of worrying about everything. Do I look pretty? Did I say something stupid? Is my skin Ok? My teeth? Am I too fat?  Etc etc etc.

What I do care about is if I like myself. Liking yourself is probably one of the most important things you can do for yourself.

I also don’t care if I’m understood. I don’t care if you don’t like my clothes, hair, makeup, blah blah blah. The list goes on and on.

The things I do care about though like  am I doing right by myself? Do I want to do this or that? If the answer is no, I will not do it. I don’t have any problems saying no anymore. I used to be something that was very hard for me. 

I wish I didn’t take so long to get to this place in my life. I find peace and knowing that I finally made it there and putting I do sometimes Who cared about everything and worried about everyone, but honestly that was exhausting! It made me angry, unhappy and powerless!  If you are like I was, you can stop it. You have the power! If you wanna change, change! If you wanna say no! Say no! If you don’t give an F then don’t do it. Don’t  sell yourself!  Don’t put yourself and your needs or feelings last. Make sure you are putting yourself on the top of the list of important things in your life. 

You are worth it!